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Also.. The wife here, maybe you guys can help me out a bit. You guys know that I have fun on my dates, but what I am looking for is help to keep hubby on his toes about it in between dates. Ways to keep the fantasy going on a regular basis rather then just being pumped up right before a date. I am trying to be more dominant, which is the complete opposite of my normal behavior. This is where I need help. Any advice would be wonderful!! I'm talking strictly about the "hotwife" topic here. Things to say, actions, ways of being more dominant with this and making my husband see that I'm in charge of it... Feeling more confident about it before it happens, showing I want it...
One word: Ouch! How do you stop your pelvis from tearing asunder?
For the people saying we aren't verified https://www.reddit.com/r/Hotwife/comments/2jpll7/lets_get_verified_so_we_dont_get_accused_of_being/
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