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Extremely important. First time I was spanked, I seemed fine but I refused to talk about my feelings on the subject, and my Master ended up having to cuddle and care when he found me crying alone. Even if you don't think you *need* to cuddles and care afterword - it's always better to do it anyways.
The lotion one made me giggle :3
nice and true
For each person, thier aftercare needs are unique (YMMV). Also, us domly types need aftercare too ^^. Me and my girl have an aftercare box/list etc. It would be worth making one IMO.
AND CHOCOLATE!